Many people assert they've achieved it on their own, whatever "it" means for you, there must be someone along the way who has influenced, inspired, or sparked "it" in you. The reality is that no one truly accomplishes everything alone. You might have the vision, idea, or passion to drive it forward, but before you push, something or someone planted it in you. Mieux Swim is unique; this brand is created by me, Selina Ward, yet my daughters are the influencers, my oldest son keeps me focused, and my youngest son reminds me to take breaks and enjoy life. As a creative person, I feel I must have a team! There are many times when frustration sets in, with blocks and breakdowns, and that's when my husband steps in as my consoler, playing a crucial role. Shout out to you, boo, for putting up with me, but we're navigating this life together.
Not everyone reading this has a spouse, children, or even a strong family support system, which is why it sometimes feels like you're doing everything alone and for yourself. You might think this is the only way to achieve your goals, but it's not. Sometimes you overlook those meant to cross your path; it's okay to rely on others, and I am certainly guilty of this. Somewhere along the way, we've forgotten the phrase "it takes a village." Collaborating is often a better approach, but it requires trust. I'm not saying it can't be done solo—it can—but surely you can reflect on your journey and recognize when people have accompanied you, supporting you because they trusted you. The word "together" simply means "with." Who has been with you? How have they influenced your journey? Was their impact negative or positive? Who have you supported? How have you provided assistance? Did you affect them negatively or positively?
I encourage you to consider who is with you and whom you are with as you pursue your goals. Develop a "Together List" for your objectives: who should be involved, how long you've known them, how they have been impactful, whether they possess skills you lack but need, if they are in high demand, whether they are open and available, etc. To be clear, I'm suggesting this with the intent of seeking more from a career or business, but you can also create these lists to evaluate friendships and relationships. It's likely we've all heard the saying, "if you're the smartest one in your circle, you need a new circle." This concept applies to both our professional and personal lives.
Team building and collaboration are essential for creating bonds rooted in trust. As a new entrepreneur and business founder, I recognize the importance of being open to learning. I aim to welcome insights from those who once intimidated me professionally. For me, working together is a more effective approach. By lowering my defenses to advance the Mieux Swim brand, I acknowledge that it benefits the brand. Here and now, I am committed to becoming a better person, woman, mother, wife, entrepreneur, and brand every day through collaboration. Thank you to those who are on this journey with me!
